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January 22, 2018

The Plight of the Stay-At-Home Mother

Nothing really happens.

At other jobs there is the illusion of things happening.
Each day a little different.
Something you can call "adventure" or
"heroism": maybe you "saved the day" today

at work

at your job

And even if

In the grand scheme of things

Your job affects

Literally nothing...

You are able to feel:

powerful
empowered
whole
useful
interesting
needed
necessary

[employed]

We are told our whole lives that our occupation "defines us"

And now...

When we sit at home and our children cry over a bad school day and homework is not done and you do not want to argue about whether or not she can watch Octonauts while writing the letter that is a result of her teacher handing out a "red card"

We do not
Feel
[powerful/empowered/useful/interesting/needed/necessary]
employed.

We feel.

Alone
Lonely
Sad
Verklempt
Frustrated
Useless
tired

tired

tired.


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